Shared ground
The passage shows a controlled return. David authorizes Absalom’s physical relocation from Geshur back to Jerusalem (explicit). Joab acts as the go-between who carries out the king’s decision (explicit), and he treats the king’s agreement as a sign of royal favor toward himself (explicit).
At the same time, the return is not the same as reconciliation. David sets a boundary: Absalom may live in Jerusalem but must not “see” the king’s “face” ()—meaning he is barred from personal access to the king (explicit). So the narrative places father and son near each other geographically while keeping them separated relationally and publicly (inference drawn from the access ban and “own house” restriction).
Where interpretation differs
What the ban on seeing the king’s face amounts to. Many read it as a formal court restriction: Absalom is in the city but excluded from the king’s presence and the privileges that come with it. Others think the wording signals something broader—David is refusing restored relationship, not only a court appointment.
Why David allows return but denies access. Some see the restriction mainly as mercy mixed with accountability: David avoids harsher punishment but still withholds full acceptance. Others emphasize political caution: letting Absalom return reduces external complications, while the ban limits Absalom’s public standing and influence.
Why the disagreement exists
The text gives David’s decisions but not his inner reasoning. It reports actions (bring him back; let him live in his own house; do not see my face) without explaining motive, emotional posture, or a clear legal outcome for Absalom.
What this passage clearly contributes
It adds a key distinction between return and restoration: Absalom is brought back under the king’s authority, yet remains restricted from the king’s presence. It also highlights Joab’s role in royal outcomes: he both persuades and executes, and he interprets success in terms of “favor” from the king. The episode preserves tension rather than resolving it, setting up later developments where Absalom’s status in Jerusalem matters.