Titus describes a former life of foolishness, disobedience, being led astray, and being enslaved to passions and pleasures. He adds that it included malice, envy, and hatred. See Titus 3:3.
In Titus 3:3–7 the writer contrasts “what we were” with “what God did.” He begins by reminding believers that they once shared the same tangled, self-ruining patterns found in wider society. Then he shifts to God’s initiative: God’s kindness and love showed up in history, and the rescue was not earned by their right actions. This paragraph sits inside a practical section urging believers to live in a way that fits their public setting: cooperate with authorities, be peaceable, and avoid needless conflict (3:1–2). The reminder “we were once like that” supplies the emotional and moral logic for patience toward outsiders.
Titus 3:3–7 sets up a strong contrast between “what we were” (verse 3) and “what God did” (verses 4–7). The earlier life is described as confused thinking, refusal to listen, being misled, and being controlled by desires, with relational damage following (malice, envy, mutual hatred).
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Start with Titus 3:3, then read the surrounding section so the answer stays connected to the passage's flow.
3For we were also once foolish, disobedient, deceived, serving various lusts and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful, and hating one another.