Question 1

In vv. 36–38, what two outcomes does Paul explicitly permit, and how does he evaluate each?

Accepted Answer

Paul explicitly permits proceeding to marriage (“let them marry”) and says it is not sin when “need so requires” (v. 36). He also affirms the alternative: if the man has “no necessity,” is “steadfast,” and has self-control, keeping “his virgin” unmarried is also a good course (v. 37). Paul then compares them: “giving… in marriage does well,” while “not giving… in marriage will do better” (v. 38). The text presents both paths as morally acceptable, with a stated preference for remaining unmarried when it is a free, stable choice rather than forced by pressure.

Question 2

What triggers the permission to marry in v. 36, and what does Paul deny about that choice?

Accepted Answer

In v. 36, Paul pictures a situation where a man thinks he is acting “inappropriately” toward “his virgin,” where she is “past the flower of her age,” and where “need so requires.” Those elements together function as the trigger: the situation has become pressing rather than optional. Paul then denies that marriage in such a case is wrongdoing: “He doesn’t sin.” Whatever the exact scenario (guardian/daughter or fiancé/fiancée), the explicit point is that marrying to resolve the pressure—rather than prolonging the situation—is permitted and not morally condemned by Paul.

Question 3

What qualities describe the person who keeps “his virgin” unmarried in v. 37, and why do they matter to Paul’s argument?

Accepted Answer

Verse 37 highlights steadiness and freedom from compulsion. The person “stands steadfast in his heart,” has “no necessity,” and has “power over his own heart.” These descriptions matter because Paul’s preference for not marrying (vv. 37–38) is not a blanket rule; it is tied to the ability to hold that course without being forced by circumstances or overwhelmed by inner pressure. The logic is that a stable, voluntary decision can be “well” and even “better,” whereas when pressure makes delay harmful or improper (v. 36), marriage becomes the prudent and permitted resolution.

Question 4

How does v. 38 summarize Paul’s view, and what does it imply about moral status versus relative wisdom?

Accepted Answer

Verse 38 gives a two-part summary: the one who “gives… in marriage does well,” and the one who “doesn’t give… in marriage will do better.” This implies a distinction between moral permission and comparative counsel. Both options are described positively (“does well”), so marriage is not treated as sin or failure. Yet Paul still offers a comparative judgment (“better”) that aligns with the wider chapter’s theme of singleness having advantages in certain circumstances. The verse functions like a conclusion: two legitimate choices, but not identical in Paul’s estimation of what is preferable when there is no necessity.

Question 5

According to v. 39, what ends the marriage bond, and what is the stated condition on remarriage?

Accepted Answer

Verse 39 states that a wife is bound to her husband “for so long time as her husband lives,” and that if the husband dies, “she is free” to be married to whomever she wishes. The explicit ending-point of the bond is the husband’s death. The text also adds a condition: remarriage is permitted “only in the Lord.” While the verse does not unpack the phrase in detail, it clearly restricts the widow’s freedom in some way connected to allegiance to Christ and life within the Christian community. The main point remains: death frees; remarriage is allowed within that stated boundary.

Question 6

In v. 40, what kind of statement is Paul making when he says she is “happier” if she stays as she is, and how does he support it?

Accepted Answer

In v. 40, Paul signals that he is giving his “judgment,” not repeating the binding statement of v. 39. He believes the widow may be “happier” if she remains as she is (i.e., does not remarry), which matches his earlier comparative language (“better,” v. 38). He supports this by appealing to spiritual credibility: “I think that I also have God’s Spirit.” The verse therefore blends pastoral evaluation with a claim to spiritual seriousness, while still assuming the widow’s freedom to remarry in v. 39.

1 Corinthians 7:36-40

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