Shared ground
Proverbs 31:4–7 treats alcohol mainly as a leadership risk. The passage’s explicit claims focus on what drinking can do to rulers: it can dull memory, weaken restraint, and result in decisions that harm other people—especially people already vulnerable (vv. 4–5). The concern is public justice, not just private habits.
The text also recognizes a different use of alcohol: as short-term relief for those in extreme distress (vv. 6–7). That contrast highlights the different stakes. A ruler’s impaired judgment can affect an entire community, while a sufferer’s drinking is framed as momentary escape from crushing hardship.
Where interpretation differs
1) “Give strong drink…” (vv. 6–7): sincere counsel or sharp contrast?
Some read vv. 6–7 as straightforward permission: alcohol has a limited place as a kind of analgesic for someone in desperate circumstances. Others hear rhetorical edge: “If anyone is to drink like that, let it be the dying and despairing—not kings,” making the contrast more forceful than advisory.
2) “Forget the law” (v. 5): written law-code or general duty?
Some take “law” as the established legal standard a ruler must uphold (which could include written statutes). Others take it more broadly as a ruler’s obligations and principles of justice, whether or not a specific document is in view.
3) “Ready to perish” (v. 6): near death or severe misery?
Some interpret it literally (someone close to death). Others understand it as a conventional way to describe extreme desperation or poverty.
Why the disagreement exists
The passage uses compact, poetic wording. Verses 6–7 can read either as practical advice (“use for relief”) or as a pointed contrast (“this is for sufferers, not rulers”). Likewise, “law” and “ready to perish” can be understood in narrower or broader ways because the text does not specify details.
What this passage clearly contributes
Explicitly, the text links a ruler’s drinking with two dangers: forgetting what must be upheld and bending justice against the afflicted (vv. 4–5). It also explicitly depicts alcohol as capable of numbing pain and awareness of hardship for those in deep distress (vv. 6–7). Theologically, the passage assumes that leadership includes accountability to protect the vulnerable and that impaired judgment is not morally neutral when it leads to unjust outcomes. Proverbs 31:4