3:8Meaning
Abner’s anger, self-defense, and counter-accusation Abner reacts strongly to Ish-bosheth’s words, treating them as humiliating and insulting. He protests that he is not some contemptible traitor “belonging to Judah,” and he lists what he says he has done: shown loyalty to Saul’s family circle and refused to hand Ish-bosheth over to David. Against that background, he frames the accusation about the woman as outrageous—after all his “kindness,” he is being charged with wrongdoing.
