Shared ground
The passage portrays Israel seeking divine guidance before and during a civil conflict. They go to Bethel, ask who should lead the attack, and receive a clear answer: Judah goes first (v. 18). After a severe loss, they reorganize, return to God with tears, and ask whether to fight again (vv. 22–23). They receive another clear answer: go up again (v. 23).
At the same time, the narrative emphasizes the shock: even after seeking counsel, Israel suffers two early defeats with heavy casualties (vv. 21, 25). The text also keeps the family-language tension in view—Benjamin is still called “my brother” even as Israel goes to war (v. 23).
Where interpretation differs (only where needed)
Some readers take the inquiries at Bethel as evidence that Israel’s campaign had God’s approval in a moral sense, so the defeats must serve another purpose (for example, discipline, testing, or delaying victory for later reasons).
Others think the questions Israel asks are noticeably limited: they ask who should go first and whether to go up again, but they do not explicitly ask whether the war itself is right or whether their approach is flawed. On this reading, God’s answers give direction inside a larger situation that still contains human failure, so defeats are not surprising.
Why the disagreement exists
The text reports the questions and the answers, but it does not explain why God tells them to go up and yet allows them to lose twice. It also does not describe the exact form of “asking counsel” at Bethel or what else was happening spiritually and morally among Israel at that moment (those details come later in Judges 20:26 and following).
What this passage clearly contributes
Explicitly, it shows that seeking God’s guidance can coexist with painful setbacks, at least in the short term (vv. 18–25). It also highlights the tragic breakdown of Israel’s unity: “Israel” and “Benjamin” are treated as opposing forces, yet still framed as kin (v. 23). Narratively, the repeated pattern—ask, attack, lose, ask again—builds tension for what follows and prevents a simplistic “they asked, therefore they must immediately win” reading of divine guidance in the story.