Shared ground
Psalm 90:11–12 ties two realities together: God is worthy of deep reverence, and human life is short. The speaker asks who truly knows the power of God’s anger, then asks God to teach the community to “number our days” so they may gain “a heart of wisdom.” Explicitly, the passage presents wisdom as something God gives through a realistic grasp of time and accountability, not just as information.
The text also links God’s wrath to “the fear that is due” to God. Explicitly, it portrays God’s anger as weighty and not random, and it assumes that humans tend to underestimate it.
Where interpretation differs
One difference is how to hear the question “Who knows…?” Some take it as mainly rhetorical: practically no one grasps the real weight of divine anger. Others hear it as a humility statement: few grasp it well, but it is possible to know it truly.
Another difference is what “number our days” emphasizes. Some read it mainly as mortality awareness (life is brief). Others think it stresses daily accountability (each day is counted and answerable to God), with mortality as the backdrop.
A smaller difference is how “according to the fear due to you” works. Some understand it as proportionality (God’s wrath matches God’s greatness and the reverence owed). Others hear it as experiential: people experience God’s wrath in line with how seriously they take God.
Why the disagreement exists
The Hebrew wording allows more than one natural sense: questions can be rhetorical without denying all possibility of knowledge, and “numbering days” can point both to life’s brevity and to careful reckoning of time. The line about wrath “according to” fear can be heard as describing God’s fitting response or as describing the human side of perceiving that response.
What this passage clearly contributes
The passage clearly connects wise living with (1) a true estimate of God’s seriousness and (2) a learned, God-given realism about limited time. It also defines wisdom as belonging to the “heart,” meaning the inner self (thoughts, motives, direction), not merely technical skill. The movement from question (v.11) to request (v.12) presents wisdom as an outcome God teaches in light of human limits and God’s rightful authority.